Just a Phase?

Apparently, Jay agreed to opening the marriage because he thought I was going through a phase. He figured that I'd see a man or two and then things would go back to "normal"...just me and him. I'm not really sure where he got that idea because I definitely did not tell him that.

I'm not sure where this is headed. He's obviously not happy with the arrangement and has stated that he cannot have an open marriage on a long-term basis. Personally, I think that is very unfair. It's like dangling a carrot in front of a horse. I've been given a dose of freedom only to have it taken back. Not to mention, Jay doesn't do everything I like sexually.

The good news is that nothing has changed for now. Maybe he'll even change his mind.